It has been established that whatsoever that attracts a man commands his attention. Body attraction and the manner in which we handle things should not be waved away as non-essential considerations in a relationship. Next in line after defining the relationship is considering the physique of your supposed partner, i.e., the natural makeup or physical structure, of a person. If you’re attracted to someone that you’re dating the chances that you’ll cheat on him/her will be minimal expect for an individual who womanizes. Womanizing is another topic for another day. Attraction is not something that is constant for some persons but they must be basic things that you should be attracted to like the height, body size and complexion. Everyone has a picture of at least one of these 3 qualities that are mentioned. Once you can identify one, the chance is that others will start to be unveiled gradually as the relationship advances. People often times underestimate the importance of attraction and think it’s something they can neglect. It is dangerous to be in a relationship with someone you’re not physically attracted to. Lack of attraction to each other will naturally quench the flames of commitment and it can make one to lose confidence and self-worth in the relationship. Every woman wants to be desired and chased after, for the male you must make sure that you’re genuinely attracted to her in other to make her feel like the queen that she is. The male in the other hand desires to be valued and respected, if he doesn’t command your respect as a female, you must slow things down a bit until you can show some respect. The male and the female must make sure they’re proud of each other’s body physique.
Another angle to consider is the neatness status of the individual. While some persons are very clean in handling themselves and their stuffs others are dirty and don’t care if something is clean or not. As funny as this might sound, it is paramount that you take this into observation, because living with someone who doesn’t practice the same hygienic methods like you can be so frustrating and daunting. For instance if the lady is a neat person and well-coordinated in her dealings, to be with a guy that is dirty and cares less about arranging his stuffs or keeping things back from where he removed them will be so frustrating. Relationship is sweet when efforts are appreciated. So no matter how little the effort is; if it is abused by a partner it causes unhappiness. Some people are good at scattering what others have arranged and are never bothered to arrange it back. It is therefore your duty to step this into action if you care for peace in your relationship. Some people don’t mind managing dirty partners and still be happy, but if you know you can’t manage it, and dirty people turn you off immediately, please be advised to consider your stand on the relationship again. Cleanliness is something that some people don’t joke with and if you cannot be on the same page with your partner please air your views to him/her. After you’ve explained your fears in that area to your partner, try to give some time and observe the changes. Be very careful so that you won’t be a victim of someone pretending to be neat while they’re not. Relationship requires that you observe things concerning your partner don’t allow love to stop you from using your brain. In summary, know what you can tolerate and what you cannot tolerate. If you cannot stay with someone who is dirty, please don’t try it, because the activities at home requires both party to be on the same page, so that no party will feel like a slave and feel less-appreciated.
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